Saturday, November 23, 2013

Stressors

While growing up I experienced poverty. I believe there are varying degrees of this, mine was not the poverty that had me going to bed without food or without a roof over my bed. My father has always been present and supported me throughout my life but I have only lived with my mother for most of it. All the money that my mother earned went into paying for our basic necessities. For years we did not own a refrigerator, television, a dining room table and chairs. We used to put things in water to help keep it cold. I had a rectangular cardboard that I used to eat on, in case I made a mess. I remember my mother telling me this is not the way people eat and that if I went to someone’s house I should eat around a table. I often wore second hand clothes from my cousins because we could not afford to buy much new clothes. Since we had very little furniture I used to make what should be the living room and dining room into a play area. I never owned a Barbie but I did have other toys to play with. There were things that I wanted sometimes but my mother would explain that she doesn’t have the money to buy these things. My mother once told me that when I was younger I got sick but I did not tell her that I was feeling unwell. When she asked me about it I told her that she does not have the money to take me to the doctor. To this day I don’t like to waste food, I always try to finish everything on my plate, I try to conserve energy and it is hard for me to buy clothes or shoes over a certain price. As I grew older and our economic situation improved I still disliked asking my mother for money even if it was for school supplies. Though I did not have much, I thoroughly enjoyed my childhood. My mother and I grew and continue to be very close, we talk about everything.

According to UNICEF (n.d.), in Ghana some stressors that affect children are: diseases, malnutrition mostly due to poverty, and access to safe drinking water, and child labor which is sometimes accompanied by violence. In order to counteract this UNICEF has partnered with other programs. One such partnership, UNICEF and the Guinea Worm Eradication Program, has seen cases of the disease drop by 85 per cent between 2007 and 2008 (UNICEF, n.d.). UNICEF has partnered with the government and others to form a child protection systems such as anti-human trafficking units and domestic violence and victim support units (UNICEF, n.d.). “In December 2005,the Government passed a comprehensive anti-trafficking bill, with assistance from a variety of international organizations” (Johansen, 2013). The International Organization for Migration (IOM) and APPLE, a local NGO “both rescue children from trafficking situations and bring them back to their families” (Johansen, 2013). Organizations such as Free the Children (2013) partners with communities. They help to provide clean water systems, latrines, hand-washing stations and water and sanitation education (Free the Children, 2013). Additionally, the organization will provide health education and training, implement nutrition programs at schools and provide an alternative income for men and women through new business development (Free the Children, 2013).

References:

Free the Children. (2013). Ghana. Retrieved from http://www.freethechildren.com/international-programming/where-we-work/ghana/

Johansen, R. 2013. Child trafficking in Ghana. United Nations Office on Drugs and Crimes. Retrieved from http://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/frontpage/child-trafficking-in-ghana.html

UNICEF. (n.d.). UNICEF Ghana. Retrieved from http://www.unicef.org/wcaro/Countries_1743.html

6 comments:

  1. Dear Karina, It sounds like you and your mom had a wonderful relationship. You and I are alike in the fact that we had to grow up very quickly. You had to be very grown up to understand the plight faced by your mom. There is nothing wrong with being conservative. I hope you do not feel that way. I have been known to save bread sacks and tin foil my self.By the way...Barbie is overrated!

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    1. Lol, now that I'm an adult I think it's overrated too. Thanks for your feedback.

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  2. Hi Karina

    it sounds lie we could have been sisters. I only learned since I was 21 that I lived in poverty according to what the guildelines say is poverty. My mother did all she could but still struggle to get the other wants and needs. As an adult, I teach my children to help others, share what you have big or little and always be thankful for what you have. As a child I would cry because I wanted some of the "up-to date things but my parents only could afford the bare minimum. Thanks for sharing and continue to be blessed and not stressed.

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    1. Thanks for your comments. I really think it's important for us to learn from our past. I am glad that you teach your kids to share and to be thankful.

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  3. I enjoy reading your post on your blogs because they're informative, and intimate. I took a class called "Poverty", in undergrad. In this class we discussed the various effects poverty has on children. We also did an experiment where we took our finances and lived in poverty for 2 days. Although 2 days, is in no way similar to actually living in poverty, I believe it gave the class an perspective of what it's like to live in poverty.

    Many children who live in poverty are not aware they are living in poverty, until they get older. As an future educator we should promote resilence in children at an early age. This will allow they them to face any adversity that comes their way (ex; poverty, violence, illness, neglect, etc)

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  4. Thank you! That sounds like a very interesting experiment.

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